About Amanda Lilley

Divorcing or planning to divorce a partner who is abusive, unstable, or highly combative presents unique challenges.

I’ve been there, and now I help women approach these situations with clarity, calm, and confidence.
— Amanda Lilley, Crossroads Consulting Founder
What I Do
I provide coaching, not therapy or legal advice. My work focuses on helping you organize your experiences into clear, structured language so you can express yourself effectively in stressful or high-stakes conversations.
Who I Help
I work with women experiencing high-conflict divorce, custody disputes, post-separation abuse, or those preparing to leave difficult relationships. Whether you’re meeting with a lawyer, attending a court hearing, or responding to challenging messages, I help you find calm, steady ways to communicate your truth.
My Approach
My approach is calm, practical, and language-focused. I help you summarize what has happened in your situation and shape that story into concise, grounded talking points. This process builds understanding, both for yourself and for others who need to hear your story clearly.
What This Isn’t
I’m not a lawyer or therapist. I don’t provide legal advice, therapy, or document preparation. Instead, our work focuses on self-awareness, structure, and confidence.
Outcome
After each session, you’ll leave with clarity, emotional steadiness, and practical language to navigate your next conversation, whether that’s with your ex, your attorney, or a judge.
Helping women prepare for conversations with lawyers, mediators, and family court, calmly and strategically.
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